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Tim Cimbura

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Bouncing Around

2009-07-22 By tcimbura Leave a Comment

We had a reunion party for some friends yesterday. One of the smartest things we did was rent a bouncer. (If you’re in the Twin Cities area in Minnesota…I highly recommend Magic Bounce for your rental.) We made a big deal about it for our girls. We were bringing the Disney princess castle to our house! It was magical watching them watch it inflate in the backyard. It only took about 5 minutes (but speeded up here for your viewing pleasure).

The bouncer was the single most important party investment we made. It gave the kids hours of fun and meanwhile the adults had time to enjoy conversations without thousands of interruptions. It also gave the adults times to have great fun IN the bouncer. It was big enough for the “big kids”. One person said it clearly: “I feel like a kid!”.

Having rented the bouncer, the only problem I see now is that after our kids have played in one for hours at home we’ve kind of spoiled them. They’ll never be able to go to a carnival and think it’s a big deal to spend 5 minutes in one for a dollar.

I thought bouncing was way more fun than on a trampoline. Everything is soft and safe. You can’t accidentally hit the edge and crack open your skull or get a finger stuck in a spring…and trampolines don’t have slides or basketball hoops! At first glance I was kind of confused by that one…a basketball hoop and net inside the princess castle? I guess Cinderella had to do something to pass the time while waiting for her prince to come.

It’s really easy for guests to find your home when there’s an 18′ princess castle in the yard. You can get all kinds of themes to match your party. Enjoy.

Cool! Just found the technical info on this bouncer.

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Ask More Questions

2009-07-12 By tcimbura Leave a Comment

A few months ago I took Arianna to her first dance class. It was fascinating watching the little ones meet for the first time. One girl would come up and ask her a question like. “What’s YOUR name?” She’d answer “Arianna. How old are YOU?” “I’m almost four.” “Where do you live?” There was a long pause…”I don’t know!” Her concept of geography leaves something to be desired at this point.

As adults we might not be so bold to ask our age or address as the first questions when we meet someone. Often times people are even afraid to ask someone’s name. Why? Asking questions with genuine interest is so powerful. It can make you a new friend within minutes, solve a problem at work, help make a good decision, radically change a relationship, or any number of other positive outcomes.

Kids are the kings of question asking. The most common word for children age 3-5 (besides “no”) is “Why?”. We should take a lesson from them.

RELATIONSHIP QUESTIONS
One of my favorite questions to ask people I’ve just met is “What do you do for fun?” or “What are you passionate about?” I believe this question is more important than asking about their job, where they’re from, etc. It gets immediately to the heart of what they value and who they are. I’m surprised at how often people can’t even answer the question. For many it’s been so long since they’ve had fun that they don’t even know. Work is important…but needs to be balanced with rest and relaxation so that you have the energy and creativity to do a good job and be productive.

Here’s one powerful question you can ask your significant other on a regular basis. “Honey, what can I do for you that would make your day?” (You can leave the word “honey” out if you like. “Sweetums”, “sugar plum”, or “baby cakes” may be acceptable alternatives depending on your mood.)

A second powerful question to improve relationships is this: “On a scale from 1-10 where do you see our relationship?” Follow up with “What would it take to make it a 10?” For married couples, the answer to this question is a built-in marriage manual that comes straight from your spouse.

LIFE QUESTIONS
My daughter recently asked a powerful question: “What are we going to do GREAT today?” You can ask yourself that one every day. The answer should be something great. At the end of the day, if you’ve done at least one great thing, then it was worth living.

When people ages 65 and older were asked, “What would you do differently if you could live your life over?” the top three responses were: (1) Stop and take time to ask the big questions (2) Take more risks in work and love and (3) Live life with a purpose and make a difference.
You don’t have to wait until your 65 to ask yourself this question. What can you do TODAY to live with purpose and make a difference?

Nearly everyone wishes they could win the lottery. Here’s a question to add perspective to that wish “How would you live your life today if you had a million dollars?” Think about it. What would you change? Maybe you’d get a bigger house, a boat, a lake cabin, or take a trip…but after the initial buying spree is done…what would you do differently? For most people, I think the real important changes they ‘d make may not really require the money. So the follow up question is: “What is stopping you from doing that today?”

LEARNING AND GROWING QUESTIONS
I heard a story about a little girl who was watching her mom make a roast beef. Her mother cut off the ends, wrapped it in string, seasoned it, and set it in the roasting pan. The girl asked her mom why she cut off the ends of the roast. Her mother replied “That’s the way my mother had always done it.”
That night grandma came to dinner and the little girl asked her why she had cut the end off of the roast. After some thought grandma answered “That’s the way my mother had always done it.”
The girl’s great grandmother was quite old and lived in a nursing home. The girl went to see her and again asked the question. Grandma looked a bit annoyed and said, “Why so it would fit in the pan, of course!”
We can learn from this story that, like the little girl, we need to ask the right questions. Why do we do things? Is it just tradition? Is it the way we’ve ALWAYS done things? Maybe it’s time for a change.

I propose that we ask the following questions of ourselves when we plan to ask questions for the purpose of learning:
1. WHAT are you asking? Is it addressing the major issues of your life? Is it an open ended question that provides you with actionable information? Is it not a yes/no dead end question?
2. WHO are you asking? Is the person respected, trusted, and intelligent? Do they have some experience, talent, or expertise that you don’t have?
3. WHY are you asking? Do you really want to know the answer? Are you asking with a sincere heart?
4. WHEN are you asking? Is it a good time for the other person to answer? Are you in the right environment?
5. HOW are you asking? Are you asking a question in e-mail or over that phone that is better to ask in person?

Try asking someone you trust this question: “Is there any advice you can give me that would improve my life 100%?” Maybe you’ll be surprised at the answer you get…just for asking.

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Searching Anywhere

2009-06-25 By tcimbura 1 Comment

Yesterday, I went to our local Hollywood video. I was looking for a movie by Nick Park (of Wallace & Gromit fame) called “Shaun the Sheep”. At the time, I didn’t know the exact spelling and couldn’t find it on the shelf under “S”.

The guy at the counter couldn’t find anything similar in the computer. He looked with several different spellings “Shawn, Sean, Sheep, Baah,” etc. He couldn’t search by director, either. Then it dawned on me. I have the internet on my iPhone. I should search there! I pressed the Google button, followed by the “voice search” button and spoke out loud into my phone “Shaun the Sheep”. Within a few seconds I was looking at the official fan site and all 6 of the DVDs (only 3 are available in the U.S so far). Shaun the Sheep: Back in the Ba-a-ath In fact, within a few seconds more I could order the DVD and have it on my doorstep the next day.

The moral here: If companies don’t have excellent technology support within their shops, they will lose business. It should scare you as a business owner when the customer has more power on their phone than the person behind the counter does with a high speed connection and full computer. It’s time for some technology investment. It’s smart business.

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The Broken Projector Solution

2009-05-29 By tcimbura Leave a Comment


The other day I was in a business meeting. The meeting started on time…but the video projector did not. We tried multiple computers and settings until we finally concluded the thing was broken. We were at a stand still. We were working on some database design tasks and we really needed to all look at the same screen in order to accomplish our meeting objectives.

I looked around the room and saw 6 laptops. Everyone had a screen directly in front of them. I thought (to myself) “What if they could all see what I’m seeing on their screen?” Then the solution dawned on me. Mac OS X Leopard has built in screen sharing (via iChat or direct connection with VNC). I opened my computer for screen sharing and had everyone else in the room connect to my computer so they could view my screen in a window on their laptops.

Now not only could everyone see directly what I was doing on my screen, but we had another major benefit. Each meeting participant could also interactively control the screen whenever desired. This feature actually led to some confusion as multiple people tried to do something at the same time causing the mouse pointer to jump around or keys typing. By the end of the meeting we had established a new meeting norm for “hands off”. Everyone was required to put their hands up in the air “hold up style” and let designated driver do the work when we handed off control.

This is now possibly the preferred method of working. Even if we had the projector working…we could still allow people to connect this way on their laptop. It really made things easier and added some new dynamics to the meeting that made for fun and productivity.

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A Fun Staycation in Minneapolis

2009-05-25 By tcimbura Leave a Comment

One of the “Child at Heart” themes is experiencing things for the “first time”. A great way to do this is through travel. Travel expert Rick Steve’s calls traveling “heightened living”. Like children, when we experience things for the first time out senses are more alive. We see, hear, smell, feel, and taste things that are new to us.

Often we don’t take the time to explore the world we live in from day to day…like a tourist would if they were here. There are many things we don’t notice and perspectives that we don’t get because we simply don’t take the opportunity to move out of our home and away from the TV. Many times it takes someone visiting us from out of town for us to go and see some of the amazing things we have right in our own backyard.

I plan to provide some suggested itineraries in my blog that will help people explore some new areas. Most of them will be focused on the Twin Cities area…since that’s where I live. In any case, the ideas and principles can be used anywhere you are.

Choosing an activity – One of the things we enjoy doing is taking a map of our area and spreading it out on the table. Note something interesting. All the green stuff indicates parks. All the blue stuff indicates water. Both can provide a wealth of interesting venues for exploration. Pick one at random and then make an outing to go visit. Pack a picnic lunch or pick up some sandwiches on the way and enjoy. Cities can also provide a lot of interesting options. Pick a new mall to explore. You’ll feel like you’re on vacation because it’s simply something that you don’t do that often. We tend to get stuck in our familiar surroundings and always go to the same shopping area that is closest to us.

So this particular day we planned to a little staycation to downtown Minneapolis. We’ve had light rail here for a few years and I’m never ridden it. We also have this landmark that looks like the Washington Monument with windows. It’s called the Foshay tower. So with those two things I’ve never experienced we set out for a fun day. Along the way we ran into some other fun things.

Here’s our itinerary for this fine Saturday:
10 am – Arrive at the Mall of American and park in front of Bloomingdales. It’s free parking at the mall. We took a quick bathroom break for the kids before we set off for the day. Walk down the stairs outside in the parking lot and get to the start of the Hiawatha line light rail. Kids under 6 are free so we purchased 2 adult tickets for $1.75 in the machine and then took the rail to downtown Minneapolis…Nicollet Ave. On the way we passed the old city hall and our daughter thought it was Cinderella’s Castle. Who need’s Disneyworld?

10:45 am – We tool a leisurely stroll down Nicolett Mall. We peeked in Gaviidae Plaza to look up and see the Phoenix water fountain. http://www.gaviidaecommon.com
We then went up one floor to the skyway and walked through Sak’s Fifth Avenue to the fountain in the IDS Crystal Court. From here you can see the restaurant Basil’s that is famous for the intro to “Mary Tyler Moore” show. We grabbed a bag of the greatest oatmeal chocolate chip cookies and a drink at Potbelly Sandwich Works.

11:30 am – We continued our walk through Macy’s and onto the street level. There were lots of photo opportunities. Down near Peeve Plaza and Orchestra Hall in front of Brit’s Pub (a great place for “bangers and mash”, shepherd’s pie or fish and chips) we saw a group of people doing “Morris dancing“…a form of English folk dance. They were having a lot of fun. One of the dancers told me “This type of dancing used to be done by the youth at harvest time in Europe but today it’s mostly old people with beards.” I thought they were mostly young at heart.

12 pm – We backtracked with out destination the Foshay Tower which is now the W Hotel. The national historic register operates the observation deck on the 30th floor (open daily from 12 noon-9 pm). It’s $8 for adults and free for kids.
It was really interesting to get a great view and some good photos from so high up. One kid said “Wow! I can see the whole universe from here! This is the funnest day I’ve ever had.” We learned some really interesting facts about the tower and the history surrounding it. We had a delicious lunch at the Key’s Cafe on the first floor.

2 pm – Taking a relaxing stroll back down Nicollet Mall we ended up at the Minneapolis Public Library. They have a great area for kids there and we took the opportunity to read some books to our girls.

3 pm – We hopped on the light rail again and took it back to the Mall of America. I’ve driven that road alongside the train countless times but it looked completely difference from inside the train. It was a fresh perspective.

We had a fun and exciting day with tons of new experiences. We really lived today.

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Young at Heart

2009-05-15 By tcimbura Leave a Comment


A few months ago, I saw an inspiring documentary about a singing group called “Young at Heart” based in Northampton, Massachusetts. Members of “Young at Heart” have a minimum age of 73 and they sing contemporary and classic rock and pop songs…many songs you’d not expect people that age to sing. The film follows their lives as the they prepare for a new concert. It’s a film that will move you to really live and make the most of today.

Here’s the movie trailer.

The official movie web site and the chorus official site.

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